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被禁止的性行为与性暴力
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成人与儿童的性接触:
历史记载 1
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刘易斯·卡洛尔
(1832-1898)。《爱丽斯梦游仙境》的英国作家，对幼女感到有性吸引力，但从未与幼女有过性接触。下图是爱丽斯的原初画像，他感到有性吸引力类型的女孩。
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Lewis Carroll
(1832-1898). The English author of “Alice in Wonderland” felt attracted to very young girls, but never had sexual contact with them. Below is the original drawing of Alice, the type of girl to whom he was attracted. |
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有许多成人与儿童性接触的成年旧事（需要提到）。在西方社会，最知名的也许是罗马皇帝台比留（Tiberius，公元前42-公元37年）了，在卡普里岛宫殿里，他为了满足性欲望，不仅一直与青少年，而且与男女幼童也有性接触。不过，就因为这一原因，他甚至在古代也遭到了指责。尽管那时女性和男性发育接近或达到青春期时人们认为是合适的性伙伴了，然而，（与）幼童（的性接触）却是性方面的禁忌。台比留并不是娈童癖者（pedophile），他只不过是利用其皇权沉溺于所有形式的性放纵而已。
在基督教文化的欧洲和美国，这类行为决不会被人接受。然而，已经有过、而且现在仍旧有对儿童感到有性欲吸引力的成人。令人感兴趣的例子莫过于刘易斯·卡洛尔（Lewis
Carroll，笔名叫查尔斯·路特维奇·道奇森），他是《爱丽斯梦游仙境》（Alice’s
Adventures in Wonderland）和《镜中奇缘》（Through
the Looking Glass）的作者，曾四处寻找年轻女孩与其为伴，然后怀抱着她们讲故事，并在其父母的同意下，给其中的一些女孩拍摄裸照。不过，他从未超出“适当”的行为界限，而且从没有企图（与儿童）有任何亲近的身体接触。按照我们现时的术语定义，他极可能是一个想方设法控制自己性冲动的娈童癖者。
现今，这是一个人们加以鼓励仿效的娈童癖的案例。（对娈童癖者的）现行治疗方法是首先要设法防止他们违法。因而，训练娈童癖者不把性幻想付诸实际行动，借以保护他自己和所遇到的儿童。 |
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Adult Sexual Contact with Children: Historical Notes
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There are many
historical examples of adults having
sexual contact with children. In the
Western world, the best known is perhaps
the Roman emperor
Tiberius
(42 BC-37 AD), who kept not only adults
and juveniles, but also little boys and
girls for sexual purposes in his palace
on the island of Capri. However, for
this he was scolded even in antiquity.
Small children were sexually taboo,
although females and males were
considered suitable partners once they
approached or reached puberty. Tiberius
was not a pedophile but simply used his
imperial power to indulge in all kinds
of sexual orgies.
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In Christian Europe
and America, this kind of behavior has
never been accepted. Nevertheless, there
have been - and there are now - adults
who feel erotically attracted to
children. An interesting example is
Lewis Carroll
(pen name of
Charles Lutwidge
Dodgson), the
author of “Alice’s Adventures in
Wonderland” and “Through the Looking
Glass”. He sought the company of young
girls, entertained then, told them
stories, and, with the permission of
their parents, photographed some of them
in the nude. However, he never
overstepped the bounds of “propriety”
and never attempted any close physical
contact. According to our present
terminology, he was probably a pedophile
who managed to control his sexual
impulses.
Today, this is an example pedophiles are encouraged to follow. Current treatments try, above all, to prevent them from breaking the law. Thus, training a pedophile to live with his fantasies without acting them out protects both him and the children he meets. |
