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TODAS (India)
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Todas
More: Abor,
Lingayats, Bengali, Punjabi; Rājpūts, Brahmans, Nagas,
Chamars, Hill Maria Gond, Hill Saoras, Sinhalese, Purum, Veda,
Santals, Garos, Muria Gonds, Baiga, Nimar Bahalis,
Telugu, Lepcha,
Lodha, Uttar Pradesh, Andamanese, Nicorbarese
See also: Pakistan,
Bangladesh
According to Rivers (1906:p503)[1], a “man of strong
physique” has intercourse with the girl for one night 14 or 15 days after the
prepubescent putkuli tâzâr utili ceremony. “This [intercourse] must take place
before puberty, and it seemed that there were few things regarded as more
disgraceful than that this ceremony should be delayed till after this period
[[2]]. [The
Institutes of Vishnu proscribe that “A damsel whose menses begin to appear
(while she is living) at her father’s house, before she has been betrothed to
a man, has to be considered as a degraded woman: by taking her (without the
consent of her kinsmen) a man commits no wrong”[3]] It might be a subject of
reproach and abuse for the remainder of the woman’s life, and it was even
said that men might refuse to marry her if this ceremony had not been
performed at the proper time”. Walker (1986:p200)[4] stated that marriage was
initiated in childhood and completed at maturity. “Usually parents arrange
marital alliances for their offspring before the children are two or three
years old, and it is not uncommon for an infant of no more than a few months
old to be married. The children remain with their parents until maturity, and
it is possible that the original alliance will be dissolved and a new one
arranged before the young couple begin to live together”. Walker also maintains that
defloration, both symbolic and actual, were traditionally performed before
menarche, “or otherwise she and her parents would suffer great shame”
(p202-4). Insinuations on its continuation were found to be contradictory. A
frightened girl would be told certain stories[5] to “coax her into
agreeing to the rite”. It was performed by one of few men assigned for the
task, although no formal rules were said to exist on this point.
Janssen,
D. F., Growing Up Sexually. VolumeI. World Reference Atlas. 0.2 ed. 2004. Berlin:
Magnus Hirschfeld Archive for Sexology, Berlin
Last
revised: Sept 2004
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