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LEPCHA (Sikkim)(India)
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Lepcha
More: Abor,
Lingayats, Bengali, Punjabi; Rājpūts, Brahmans, Nagas,
Chamars, Todas, Purum, Santals,
Garos, Muria Gonds,
Baiga, Nimar Bahalis,
Lodha, Uttar Pradesh, Andamanese, Nicorbarese
See also: Pakistan,
Bangladesh, Sri Lanka
Gorer (1967)[1] gives a detailed account of Lepcha childhood sexuality[2]. The Lepcha
ignore puberty and have no word for it (p315). Female sexual maturing is
attributed to copulation, or, in the rare case of a virgin menarche, to the
visit of a supernatural Kandoo moong, a sign of good luck. “The
majority of women, however, depend on the intervention of a man; the physical
signs will start whenever a girl experiences copulation, and there is
therefore no stigma attached to grown men forcing little girls of nine or
ten, and this occurs occasionally”. A child should know who be his num-neu-zong, that is, those people with whom all
sexual contact is prohibited, by the time he is nine or ten (p153). There is
“no formally marked beginning of sexual life […]. Some men make a distinction
between pre-puberty and post-puberty sexual activity, but this distinction is
personal and not cultural. Most men, when talking of their past lives,
emphasise what was their first “real” sexual experience; but some place this
first experience very early, at the age of eleven or twelve. I think the
operative distinction in the mind of the Lepcha is
whether the sexual adventure formed part of a play, or was undertaken
seriously for its own sake” (p316). Children’s play of marriage “always end
in simulated copulation; if the “bride” is another boy, the children tie
their penises together. From about the age of ten children at marriage feasts
and similar gatherings are likely sort themselves into pairs and attempt
copulation; there is also a certain amount of mutual masturbation among boys.
[…] Adult Lepchas consider such sex-play extremely
funny, though very childish; far from being disapproving of the children,
they are more likely to egg them on” (p310). In the name of legalised
adultery, boys have their first “real” experience and training with an older
married woman, usually an older brother’s wife (p161, 326). Betrothal and
marriage start at age 8 (girls) and 12 (boys); at the time of writing, most
girls were betrothed before, or at, pubescence.
Janssen,
D. F., Growing Up Sexually. VolumeI. World Reference Atlas. 0.2 ed. 2004. Berlin:
Magnus Hirschfeld Archive for Sexology, Berlin
Last
revised: Sept 2004
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