A Cycle?

性行为的发展

性行为的发展概述

生命轮回之说

人的生命过程常常被人描述成一个轮回。有人甚至把一个人从孩童期经过生长期、成熟期、衰老期到第二孩童期的老年期等各个时期说成是人的生命周期。可是,这样的说法是肤浅的和欠考虑的。例如,把老年期解释成第二孩童期就已经导致了人们的错误认识,人们会认为老年男女会像孩童一样是无性的,会认为他们没有性需要或性能力。无论如何,对于一个个体来说,生命并不是轮回的,也就是说,一旦生命终止了,不会重新开始。面对这种令人不快的事实,一些宗教相信另一个生命循环的假说——“超生说transmigration of soul灵魂轮回说),即一个人能作为另一个人或动物以另一个生命体再生(超生),不过在现时的科学背景下,我们必须要把这种信仰搁置起来。然而,我们可以描述一个生物物种(包括人类)的生命体,那么就按照循环论的说法:每一代生命体就像他们的上一代一样地出生、生存和死亡——一个一再重复的循环模式。诚然,基于这种普通的认识,对有关生命的轮回说就勿需赘言了。但是,在我们当今的世界里,每一代人的生活体验与上一代人的可谓千差万别。这种差别不仅在于:在个人的生活水平和生活体验上终归各具特色,而且归根结底都是不可比拟的。简而言之,每一个生命体的容貌和地位卑尊,事实上是独特而短暂的。一旦被赋予了生命,就不可能再生。这个规律对于一个生命体所体验到的每一个迅急的时刻也是适用的。子在川上曰:逝者如斯夫!不舍昼夜。[1]


[1]. 原文为“Once they have passed, they never return.”借孔子的名言(引自《论语·子罕》)以译之,翻译成白话就是:一逝去就不再来的时光啊,就像这河水一样,日夜流不停,永无返回!——译校者。

Development of Sexual Behavior

Introduction

A Cycle?

The course of human life from birth to death has often been described as a cycle. One has even spoken of a human “life cycle“, from childhood through various stages of growth, maturation, and decline to a “second childhood” in old age. However, such talk is superficial and thoughtless. For example, interpreting old age as a second childhood has led to the false belief that older women and men are “asexual” like children and have no sexual needs or capacities. At any rate, for the individual, life is not cyclical, i.e. once it has ended, it does not begin again. Faced with this unpleasant truth, certain religious beliefs assume a life cycle of another sort – a “transmigration of souls”, i.e. the possibility that someone can be reborn in another life as another person or as an animal, but in the present scientific context, we have to put such beliefs aside. One can, however, describe the life of a species, including the species man (homo sapiens), in cyclical terms: Each new generation is born, lives, and dies just as its progenitors - a pattern that is repeated over and over again. Still, in this general sense, the description does not say very much. After all, in our modern world, the experiences of each generation are quite different from the one that preceded it. Not only that: On the personal level the experiences are always very specific and, in the final analysis, incomparable. In short: The beauty and dignity of each human life are due to the fact that it is unique and transitory. Once lived, it cannot be lived again. This is also true of each of life’s fleeting moments. Once they have passed, they never return.

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