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性行為的基本類型
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異性性交:
異性口交
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陰戶口交
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陰戶口交
中國北京19世紀妓院的銀質門飾。蒙中國古代性文化博物館(江蘇吳江市同裏鎮)惠允。 |
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Cunnilinctus Silver door ornament from a brothel in Beijing, China. 19th century.
Courtesy China Sex Museum, Tongli |
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我們用術語“陰戶口交
(cunnilinctus自拉丁語cunnus:陰戶、陰門;linguere:舔)”[1]來描述舔和吮女性的性器官。
女性的外部性器官及其周圍區域通常代表著女性身體最靈敏的性敏感區。通過勻稱與輕柔的撫摸,或通過溫柔而充滿激情的親吻,這些性敏感區很容易受到刺激。因而,男子通過舔吮女子的大腿內則、舔吮性器官與肛門之間的區域(會陰)及其肛門本身,可以極大地喚起女子的性欲。通過親吻、舔吮女子的小陰唇和陰蒂體,他能夠進而提升女子的性愉悅。的確,隨著不斷地練習和實踐,他以這種方式極可能把她帶到性高潮。
舔吮女子性器官的男子應該詢問女子喜歡怎樣做才最為得當,而後遵循她的指導去做。在這名男子不能勃起的情形之下,他也許會發覺光是延長口交的刺激常常也能維持女子完全的性滿足。另一方面,男子在轉換到其它性交形式之前,也可以只是利用陰戶口交作為性喚起的手段。
隨著不斷增強的性興奮,女子的陰道會分泌一些特殊的潤滑液。在健康女性,這種液體非常乾淨,可以被吞咽而不會帶來任何疾病。當然,罹患性傳播疾病的女子有傳染性的陰道分泌液顯然是例外。近年來,化妝品工業已經開始生產一些“女用衛生”噴劑和帶芳香氣味的陰道盥洗液。這些多餘的產品可能破壞陰道的微生態,並因而促進陰道感染和發炎。所以,女性應該避免任何陰道盥洗,而只是用肥皂和清水清洗性器官便可。陰道可以以自身的分泌液來清潔自身。不尋常的陰道分泌液或陰道散發的氣味是陰道出現問題的可靠徵象。在這種情形下,應該去諮詢醫生。
出於審美的原因,一些夫妻也許會在妻子的月經期避免陰戶口交。這是個人的一個偏好的問題。不過,有人建議在妊娠晚期,男方不應該去舔和吸吮孕婦的性器官,因為呼進陰道的空氣可能隨後對孕婦的健康及其胎兒會有危險。事實上,在妊娠晚期,對於任何形式的性交都要保持一份小心和謹慎才是明智之舉。(參見“妊娠”。)
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Basic Types of Sexual Behavior |
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2. Heterosexual Intercourse: Oral Intercourse |
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Cunnilinctus |
The term "cunnilinctus" (lat. cunnus: vulva and linguere: to lick) is used to describe the licking or sucking of the female sex organs.
A woman's external sex organs and the surrounding areas usually represent the most sensitive erogenous zones of her body. They are easily stimulated by regular, soft strokes of the hand, or by gentle and passionate kisses. Thus, a man may greatly arouse a woman by licking the inside of her thighs, the space between the sex organs and the anus (the perineum), and the anus itself. He can further heighten her pleasure by kissing, licking, and sucking the minor lips of her vulva and the shaft of the clitoris. Indeed, with some practice, he may very well bring her to orgasm this way. A man who licks a woman's sex organs should ask her how she likes it best and then follow her instructions. In situations, where the man cannot get an erection, he may discover that prolonged oral stimulation alone often leaves a woman completely satisfied. On the other hand, a man may also use cunnilinctus simply as a means of arousal before switching to other forms of sexual intercourse. With mounting sexual excitement, a woman's vagina secretes some special lubricating fluid. In a healthy woman, this fluid is quite clean and can be swallowed without any ill effects. The obvious exception is the infectious fluid of a woman with a
sexually transmitted disease. In recent years the cosmetics industry has begun to produce certain "feminine hygiene" sprays and sweet-smelling vaginal douches. These superfluous products may upset the vaginal ecology and thus cause infection and irritation. A woman should therefore avoid all vaginal douching and simply wash her sex organs with soap and water. The vagina cleanses itself with its own secretions. Unusual vaginal secretions or odors are a sure sign that something is wrong. In such a case, a physician should be consulted. Some couples may avoid cunnilinctus during the woman's menstrual period for aesthetic reasons. This is a matter of personal preference. However, it has been suggested that no man should lick or suck a woman's sex organs in the last stages of pregnancy because air blown into the vagina may then be dangerous to the woman’s health and that of her fetus. In fact, in the late stages of pregnancy some caution and circumspection is advisable for all forms of sexual intercourse (see "Pregnancy."). |