Teenagers

避孕

 错综复杂的问题

青少年
现在,有许多公共和私人组织和机构,象计划生育学生健康服务中心等这样的团体,它们为未婚的未成年人提供避孕药具。其实,似乎青少年和半大不小的青年人比成年人更需要这样的帮助。尽管十几岁的青少年性生理成熟了,他们常常在能够结婚和养家糊口之前不得不等上许多年。他们中的许多人对于自己的情感、需要和人生目标还困顿不解。通常的情形是,他们处于无知状态或并不在意是否需要避孕。一些年轻人事实上极可能孤注一掷,认为随其自然也没有什么大不了的,如果必定要怀孕的话,那也是命中注定的事情。他们也许暗暗地期待有了自己的宝宝可能证明自己不再依赖于父母了,或那样也许有助于自己与他人平起平坐。有一些女孩故意欺骗她们的男友,并设法怀上孩子,为的是迫使男友与自己结婚或至少把恋人关系敲定下来。多数劝告青少年采取避孕措施的机构非常熟知上述情况。所以,它们并不满足于简单地分发避孕药具,而是设法让青少年知情选择和鼓励他们采取负责任的行为。鉴于此,这些机构常常把男女孩子请到一起,双方亲自参加相关的讨论。这种举措也使得参与讨论的双方清楚地意识到:避孕始终是性伴侣双方的责任。请谨记:
每一个孩子应该是被期盼的宝宝。
仔细地使用避孕方法就能够防止非意愿妊娠。
避孕是性伴侣双方的责任。
每一种避孕方法并不是有等同的效果或并不对每一个人都合适。
要正确地运用避孕方法,否则会失效。

Contraception

 A Complex Issue

Teenagers
There are now many public and private groups and organizations, such as Planned Parenthood or students' health services, which offer contraception to unmarried minors. Indeed, it seems that teenagers and young adults need such help more than anybody else. Although they are sexually mature, they often have to wait many years before they can get married and support a family. Many of them are still confused about their own feelings, needs, and objectives in life. Very often they do not know enough or do not care enough about contraception. Some young people actually like to gamble in the hope that nature will decide for them, and that a pregnancy, if it should occur, would somehow bring some purpose and order to their lives.They may secretly hope that a baby of their own may prove their independence from their parents, or that it may help them to "get even" with somebody else. Some girls deliberately deceive their boy friends and try to get pregnant in order to force them into marriage or at least a steady relationship. Most organizations that counsel teenagers about contraception are well aware of these problems. They are, therefore, not content with simply dispensing contraceptive devices, but try to spell out the alternatives and encourage responsible behavior. For this reason, they often invite boys and girls together for a personal discussion. This approach also makes it clear that contraception is always the responsibility of both sexual partners, Remember:

Every child should be a wanted child.
Unwanted pregnancies can be prevented by the careful use of contraception.
Contraception is the responsibility of both sexual partners.
Not every contraceptive method is equally effective or suitable for everyone.
No contraceptive method can work unless used properly.

[Course 2] [Description] [How to use it] [Introduction] [Conception] [Pregnancy] [Birth] [Infertility] [Contraception] [A Complex Issue] [Methods of Contracep.] [Abortion] [Additional Reading] [Examination]