Kuper (1973:p351) observed how clothing provides “a visible mode of social control outlining sexual morality”:
“[c]hildren until weaned (in the third year) have their bodies most fully exposed. Recognized as sexually innocent, they have nothing to hide. Their nakedness reveals their purity at the same time that grown men and women are permitted to comment on both the physical beauty and sexual potential. When slightly older (approximately 3-6) sex differentiation is made culturally conspicuous. Little girls may continue to wear only a string of beads around the hips and little boys may be given a lijobo, a garment of two triangular flaps, one before and one aft[er], cut from the pelt of a specific wild animal. […] From before puberty the genitals are conspicuously hidden”.
In Swasiland, “[t]here are overlapping stages and categories of sexual relationships, which often begin with traditional puberty rites that may be regarded as legitimizing sexual activity, and are often followed by several subsequent stages of pre-marital relations. Barker (1965:p94-5) notes:
“Since he slept in the same hut as his parents, Manjenga knew as a child what was meant by sexual love-making. When he reached the age of puberty he moved from his mother’s into the bachelor’s hut on the outskirts of the kraal, and was permitted-indeed, encouraged- to start love-making himself, within certain limits. Swazi parents instruct their children in a kind of sexual activity between boy and girl without actual intercourse, known as kujuma. Full sexual penetration before marriage is considered shameful, all the more so if the girl is made pregnant”.
Mndebele (1998)provided some data concerning the age of first homosexual experience and age of homosexual partner.
In September 2001, King Mswati III argued in
favour of all teenage girls “wearing red tassels as a show of their virginity
and avoid shaking hands with men”.
This may have been a traditional custom.
Girls were told to wear woolen tassels called "umcwasho" to
symbolise their purity.
Some weeks later he stunned the country by taking a 17-year-old schoolgirl as
his eighth wife. Princess Sikhanyiso
Dlamini, 14, who then attended school in
“The purpose of the tassels is to make virgins recognizable and warn Swazi men to stay away from the maidens. The law forbids women under the age of 19 to make any physical sexual contact with men, including handshakes, and allows limited sexual contact, but not intercourse, for women over the age of nineteen (Haworth). Severe fines and social ostracism serve as pumishment [sic] for violators”.
In 2005 the King has ended a five-year sex ban he imposed on the kingdom's teenage girls a year early.
D. F., Growing Up Sexually.
Last revised: Aug 2005
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