“Investigations conducted by a variety of
groups that strongly support sex education have found that parents are
reclaiming their roles as the primary informants of sex education. Mantilla
(1993) reported that men’s primary sources of information on sexuality were:
friends, mother, father, and school. Women reported that their primary
sources of information on sexuality were: friends, mother, school, and
father. Gutierrez and Franco (1989) found that women reported that their
primary sources of information on sexuality were: school, mother, friends,
and the general media. Men reported that their primary sources of information
were: friends, school, the general media, and father. The
“Erotic autostimulation is rather common among children. Ardila (1986a)[] interviewed 700 mothers, pertaining to different Colombian subcultures, and found that three out of four mothers reported masturbatory behavior among children of 4 years of age. Acuña and associates (1986)[] explored the existence of this behavior and the anxiety that it causes for parents. In general, this type of autoexploratory and sexual gratification behavior is repressed by the adults.
Autoerotic behaviors are also common among adolescents. Masturbation generally starts between the ages of 13 and 15 (Alzate 1989; Domínguez et al. 1988; González 1995; Giraldo 1981; Gutiérrez & Franco 1989; Useche 1999)[]. Among the adolescents, between 60 and 95 percent of men and 14 and 68 percent of women have masturbated at least once in their lives (Alzate 1989; Domínguez et al. 1988; González 1995; Giraldo 1981; Gutiérrez & Franco 1989; Useche 1999)[]. In general, feelings of guilt and anxiety are reported with respect to masturbation (Domínguez et al. 1988; González 2000; Gutiérrez & Franco 1989) []”.
“Childhood sexual rehearsal play and sexual exploration are quite common. One out of every two mothers reported observing sexual rehearsal play in their 4-year-old children (Ardila 1986)[]. Still, childhood sexuality is a theme that produces great anxiety in adults (Acuña et al. 1986; González 2000)[].
There are no widespread rituals of initiation
to puberty. In some rural areas on the
Sexual activity among adolescents occurs
frequently and functions according to the traditional male-dominant cultural
pattern. Forty-four percent of Colombians initiate sexual interactions
between the ages of 11 and 18. By 18 years of age, 72 percent of males and 40
percent of females have had sexual intercourse, according to Ministry of
Two studies were done by Alzate (1978, 1984, 1989) on female Colombian university students, revealing data on masturbarche and coitarche. Romanowski et al. (1996) reported on rural parent-child communication on sexuality using a sample of adults and adolescents. Rodrigues et al. report on a study of 200 men assessed for treatment of sexual dysfunction in private clinics, arguing in favour of a relationship between childhood and present curiosity about sex. Bonilla and Fernanda-Mejia (1991) found that 400 teenagers (aged 14-19 years) experienced “poor communication with parents [on the topic of sex] because of the fear of being judged, rejected, or misunderstood”. Ebert and Money (1986) report of a Catholic woman’s development of awareness and acceptance of her children's sexuality. The subjects own sexual education, her mother's repressive attitudes, the punitive attitudes of the Catholic Church and Catholic schools, her own developing sexuality, her sexual activities as a young adult, and her interactions with her children are discussed.
Fals Borda (1955:p204) stated that “[a]ccording to
accounts, the first sexual experiences begin early in adolescence”. This
would be slightly over age 15 for married mestizo women (Lopez,
1967:p454). Males indicate a “sort of”
virginity complex, the experienced coach the virgos. In
virginity and monogamy are so jealously guarded, many boys’ first sexual
experience is with a marica [“faggot”, passive homosexual] or a female donkey
(burra). Though a large, rapidly growing city,
Solano and Gonzalez (1987) studied the sexual attitudes and
knowledge of female teachers in government and private preschool institutions
In a study
of middle-class youths aged 13-18 years in main cities of
“[…] tend to begin sex between ages 15-18, and have little concern over the consequences of their sexual behavior. They are, moreover, quite ignorant about reproductive health. Sexuality is not thought of as part of marriage, women are expected to be virgins at marriage, and a resounding 87% of the study population rejected abortion legislation. 90% of the young men had their 1st sexual encounter with either a prostitute or domestic servant, while 90% of the young women had their 1st encounters with friends from within their social groups. Sexual relations from adolescence on were supported by 35% of the girls and 60% of the boys, 72% of the girls and 38% of the boys supported virginity, yet less than 10% were in favor of the notion of open relationships. 20% of the girls and 25% of the boys had active sex lives, with homosexuality representing 1.6% and 3.1% of the two sex groupings, respectively. Sex education is practically non-existent. Most young women know little of contraception, and fail to use it out of misconceptions regarding method safety, and fear of one's parents finding out”.
“A complex preparation for Muisca priesthood most certainly affected the candidate’s perception of the world and the cosmos for the rest of his life. […] Young boys were selected for priesthood when they were ten years old and isolated in a hut for four to six years. [After some tests] The final test before being ordained was one of sexual abstination. The candidate had to sleep next to year old girls for four months and not touch them. If he failed this test he was killed during the early Muisca period. During the later Muisca times the boy who couldn't control himself was simply allowed to return to his former place in society”.
D. F., Growing Up Sexually.
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