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Maria Theresia
(1717 -1780)
Archduchess of Austria, Queen of Hungary and Bohemia, Empress of the
Holy Roman Empire.
Early in her marriage, her court physician gave this advice to her husband (in Latin):
“Ceterum censeo vulvam Sanctissimae Majestatis ante coitum esse titillandam"
(I conclude that the vulva of her Holiest Majesty should be titillated before coitus). Eventually, she gave birth
to 16 children.
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As the partners gently explore each other's erogenous zones, they are likely to return again and again to those that are the most sensitive - the sex organs. Thus, very naturally, they may find themselves engaging in manual intercourse. They may also discover that either of them can take the initiative, or that they can very well act simultaneously. In this latter case, one may, of course, speak of mutual masturbation. Obviously, a man who wants to masturbate a woman should ask her where and how she likes to be touched. (Hardly any two women masturbate in quite the same way.) Most often he will be told that the glans of the clitoris is too sensitive for any direct stimulation, and that it is far better to stroke the side of the clitoral shaft and the minor lips (labia minora). Furthermore, as the woman becomes sexually excited, her vagina begins to lubricate naturally, and the man should then use his fingers to spread this lubrication to the clitoris in order to avoid possible irritation. He should also remember that, with mounting excitement, the clitoris withdraws under its hood or foreskin and therefore becomes inaccessible. However, as long as he follows the woman's own instructions and keeps stimulating the general area of the vulva, he can usually bring her to orgasm. Indeed, since many women are capable of several orgasms in quick succession, he may even continue his caresses or switch to oral or genital intercourse.
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