性功能障碍的治疗-性治疗

“传统的”性功能障碍 - 男性性功能障碍的治疗

性高潮时机不满足- 治疗
相互协调
最后，我们应该记住，当人独处时，对他/她来说就没有所谓不合时宜的性高潮问题。只有在涉及到另外一个人的时候，这个问题才会出现，并且所产生的性高潮问题因此可以从两种不同的观点来定义：1.“男性的性高潮太早”；2.“女性的性高潮太迟”。所以，女子可能会认为男子的性高潮节律不令她满意，因为在她自己满足的数分钟之前他出现了性高潮。但是，同样是这个男子，他可能能够满足另一个有较快性反应的女子。简而言之，性高潮的节律基本上说来是一个性伴双方相互的协调问题，并且在许多案例中，不满足于男性性伴性高潮节律的女性恰恰能够对性的相互协调这一目标做出最大的贡献。至少，她应该知道，在她的帮助下，从实践上来说只要其中一人想要延缓性高潮的话，每一个男子都能够学会延缓自己的性高潮。偶尔，对性高潮节律感到特别沮丧和协调能力较差的性伴可能需要专业的帮助，以学习和实践相互协调的练习。尽管如此，许多这样的性伴仍可以有能力做出自己的相互协调。

The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Sex Therapy

The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions

Unsatisfactory Timing of Orgasm - Treatment
Mutual Adjustment
Finally, it should be remembered that there is no such thing as an ill-timed orgasm for people who are alone. The problem arises only in relation to another person, and it can therefore always be defined from two different points of view: 1. "The man's orgasm comes too soon," and 2. "The woman's orgasm comes too late". Thus, a woman may find the timing of a man's orgasm unsatisfactory because it occurs several minutes before she herself is satisfied. However, the same man may very well be able to satisfy another woman with quicker responses. In short: The timing of orgasms is basically a matter of a couple's mutual adjustment, and, in many cases, it may well be the woman who can contribute most toward this goal. At any rate, she should know that, with her help, practically every man can learn to delay his orgasm as long as either of them want it delayed. In recent years, sex therapists have developed some simple exercises which can help men and women make their sexual intercourse last longer. Occasionally, an especially frustrated and maladjusted couple may need professional guidance in learning and practising these exercises. Still, many couples may also be able to make the adjustment on their own.