性功能障碍的治疗-性治疗

“传统的”性功能障碍 - 男性性功能障碍的治疗

性高潮时机不满足 - 治疗
相互协调: “挤压技术”
要学习的最为重要的技术是所谓的“挤压技术”。我们应该按照以下方法进行练习：男方仰卧，张开双腿。女方坐在男方双腿之间，其双脚置于男方躯干两侧。这种体位方便女方双手随意接触男方的性器官。通过使用某些按摩油或身体润滑油，女方于是温柔地抚摸男方的阴茎，直到他产生勃起。当男方保持放松和完全被动状态时，女方继续用手淫方式刺激男方，直到他达到性高潮为止。(为了做得适当，女方应该问一问男方，征求他对抚摸和握持阴茎的节奏和强度的感受和指点。某些男子更容易由和缓和稳实的抚摸所兴奋；其他的男子则喜欢轻快的抚摸。同理，随着性唤起的产生，男方可能想要改变抚摸的节律。在性伴双方之间的坦诚和直率的语言交流因而非常重要。)当男方接近达到性高潮的时候，并且刚好他达到“不可挽转的顶点”的时候，就要示意女方运用“挤压技术”。然后，这种完整的练习应该至少在两轮的疗程里重复进行。

运用挤压技术
当男方感到自己正要达到“不可挽转的顶点”的时候，也就是说，他的性高潮临近的时候，通过从阴道中抽出阴茎就能够学会延缓自己的性高潮。然后，男方请女方以左图所示的方法要么挤压阴茎头的下方，要么挤压阴茎的根部。这种方法会中断正要到来的性高潮，随后，男方可以继续性交，直到觉得性高潮再要来临时，再中断性交并请女方运用另一次挤压技术。

The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Sex Therapy

The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions

Unsatisfactory Timing of Orgasm - Treatment
Mutual Adjustment: The "Squeeze Technique"
The most important technique to be learned is the so-called "squeeze," which should be practised in the following way: The man lies on his back with his legs spread apart. The woman sits between his legs with her feet on each side of his torso. This position gives her hands free access to his sex organs. Using some massaging oil or body lotion, she then gently strokes his penis until he gets an erection. While the man remains relaxed and passive throughout, the woman continues to masturbate him until he approaches orgasm. (In order to do this properly, she should ask the man for instructions as to tempo and firmness of grip. Some men are more easily excited by slow, firm strokes; others like them light and quick. Also, as arousal progresses, the man may want a change of rhythm. Open and explicit verbal communication between the partners is therefore essential). As the man comes closer to orgasm, and just as he reaches his "point of no return," he signals the woman to apply the "squeeze". This whole exercise should then be repeated in at least two more special sessions.

Using the Squeeze Technique.
A man can learn to delay his orgasm by withdrawing his penis from the vagina whenever he feels he is approaching “the point of no return”, i.e. that his orgasm is near. He then asks the woman to squeeze the penis either just below the glans or at the base in the manner shown left. This will stop the approaching orgasm, and after that, the man can continue intercourse until he feels orgasm approaching again and wants the woman to apply another squeeze.