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The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions
- Sex Therapy |
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The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The
Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions |
Unsatisfactory
Timing of Orgasm - Treatment
Mutual
Adjustment
Finally, it should be
remembered that there is no such thing
as an ill-timed orgasm for people who
are alone. The problem arises only in
relation to another person, and it can
therefore always be defined from two
different points of view: 1. "The man's
orgasm comes too soon," and 2. "The
woman's orgasm comes too late". Thus, a
woman may find the timing of a man's
orgasm unsatisfactory because it occurs
several minutes before she herself is
satisfied. However, the same man may
very well be able to satisfy another
woman with quicker responses. In short:
The timing of orgasms is basically a
matter of a couple's mutual adjustment,
and, in many cases, it may well be the
woman who can contribute most toward
this goal. At any rate, she should know
that, with her help, practically every
man can learn to delay his orgasm as
long as either of them want it delayed.
In recent years, sex therapists have
developed some simple exercises which
can help men and women make their sexual
intercourse last longer. Occasionally,
an especially frustrated and maladjusted
couple may need professional guidance in
learning and practising these exercises.
Still, many couples may also be able to
make the adjustment on their own. |
