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The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions
- Sex Therapy |
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The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The
Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions |
Unsatisfactory Timing of Orgasm -
Treatment
Mutual Adjustment: The
"Squeeze Technique"
The most
important technique to be learned is the
so-called "squeeze," which should be
practised in the following way: The man
lies on his back with his legs spread
apart. The woman sits between his legs
with her feet on each side of his torso.
This position gives her hands free
access to his sex organs. Using some
massaging oil or body lotion, she then
gently strokes his penis until he gets
an erection. While the man remains
relaxed and passive throughout, the
woman continues to masturbate him until
he approaches orgasm. (In order to do
this properly, she should ask the man
for instructions as to tempo and
firmness of grip. Some men are more
easily excited by slow, firm strokes;
others like them light and quick. Also,
as arousal progresses, the man may want
a change of rhythm. Open and explicit
verbal communication between the
partners is therefore essential). As the
man comes closer to orgasm, and just as
he reaches his "point of no return," he
signals the woman to apply the
"squeeze". This whole exercise should
then be repeated in at least two more
special sessions. |
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Using the Squeeze Technique.
A
man can learn to delay his orgasm by
withdrawing his penis from the vagina
whenever he feels he is approaching “the
point of no return”, i.e. that his
orgasm is near. He then asks the woman
to squeeze the penis either just below
the glans or at the base in the manner
shown left. This will stop the
approaching orgasm, and after that, the
man can continue intercourse until he
feels orgasm approaching again and wants
the woman to apply another squeeze.
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