Basic Types of Sexual  Behavior

2. Heterosexual Intercourse: Anal Intercourse

Techniques of Anal Intercourse

Lubricants are available in various forms. They should be water-soluble for two reasons: 1.They do not irritate and are easy to wash off, 2. Unlike fat-based lubricants, they do not destroy any condoms that may be used.

There are women who find great pleasure in anal intercourse. However, unlike the vagina, the anus does not provide its own natural lubrication, and therefore the use of some artificial, water-soluble lubricant is advisable. The lubricant is best applied to the anus itself. This also offers the opportunity for a gentle massage of the anal sphincter or even the insertion of a finger. After this preparation, the penis can be inserted. The insertion itself should be very slow, and, once inside, the penis should not be moved for a while until the anal sphincter is completely relaxed. Then one or both partners can begin some cautious pelvic thrusting.
A woman who is not used to it may, at first, find the insertion of the penis into her anus unpleasant or even painful. However, after several gentle attempts, she may begin to enjoy it even if she does not reach orgasm herself. Her partner can, of course, masturbate her during anal intercourse, and if she does have one or several orgasms, the resulting contractions of her anal sphincter will provide an additional stimulation for the penis.