性功能障碍的治疗-性治疗

“传统的”性功能障碍 - 男性性功能障碍的治疗

膨胀问题: 缺乏勃起 - 社会心理原因

继发性缺乏勃起
在发病上占第二位的继发性缺乏勃起可能也需要这样的性治疗。此型罹病的男子在其一生中的某个时候有能力性交，可是已经几乎或完全丧失了这种能力。他们也根本不再有勃起，或在大多数的时候未有勃起。当然，我们必须谨记，偶尔的缺乏勃起是完全正常的。毕竟，男人不是一架机器。有的时候，当劳累、闷闷不乐、心烦意乱或醉酒了，他们也许会感到意乱情迷，可是他们的身体简直不听使唤。在这种情形下，急急忙忙的投入、主观意愿的驱使或特别的技巧将都不会有什么结果。我们倒是建议这样的性伴，要仔细地思量，接纳这种局面，尽可能地好好配合。例如，也许要铭记，一名男子并不需要勃起才能满足他的性伴。用手就能把疲软的阴茎“塞”入阴道，甚至于此后的阴茎仍然疲软也无妨，性伴双方可以转用性交的某些动作。用这种方式，女方要达到性高潮并不是根本不可能的。此外，男方也可以用手、用唇和用舌来做爱。不管怎样，男方要放松心情，在另一个时候，当健康状态有所改善的时候，阴茎将会再次很容易地勃起来。

The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Sex Therapy

The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions

Problems of Tumescence: Lack of Erection - Psychosocial Causes

Secondary problems
Such therapy may also become necessary for a second much larger group of men - those who have been capable of coitus at some time in their lives, but who seem to have lost much or all of this capability. They either no longer have any erections at all, or fail to have them a great deal of the time. It has to be remembered, of course, that an occasional lack of erection is perfectly normal. After all, men are not machines. Sometimes, when they are tired, worried, distracted, or drunk, they may feel amorous, but their bodies simply refuse to respond. In such a case, frantic efforts, will power, or special acrobatics lead nowhere. Instead, the couple is well advised to accept the situation and to make the best of it. For instance, they might remember that a man does not need an erection to satisfy his partner. A limp penis can be "stuffed" into the vagina by hand and even if it then remains limp, the couple can go through some motions of coitus. It is not at all impossible for a woman to reach orgasm in this way. Furthermore, the man can also make love with his hands, lips, and tongue. In any case, he can rest assured that, at another time when conditions are more favorable, the penis will easily become erect again.