A Vicious Circle: Fear of Failure

性功能障碍的治疗-性治疗

传统的性功能障碍 - 男性性功能障碍的治疗

膨胀问题: 勃起缺乏 - 社会心理原因

恶性循环: 害怕失败
一些男子是如此地不自信,以至于发展到在性交中害怕失败。其他的男子恰恰对自己过于苛求,并且会考验自己的性反应,由此把每一次的性偶遇变成了一场论输赢的战斗。还有一些人试图通过饮酒来“使自己的本钱变得更硬”。自然而然地,这些策略只会招致失败,并由此使偶尔的功能障碍发展成了慢性疾病。有的男子的性高潮总是比他的性伴来的过早,这样一来同样的命运可能会降临到他们的头上。也有某些男子不能从情感上摆脱自己的一个或两个性伴的控制,有一些由禁欲主义教养出的人已经对自己的性感受感到心神不宁某些男子因为有同性恋性兴趣,要进行阴道性交可能比较困难;有些男子只不过缺乏性行为经验而害怕失败。上述所有的男子可能最终感到自己不能勃起或不能维持勃起,因而断定自己不能投入性交活动。事实上,只要他们有四分之一的时间发生了定期的勃起缺乏,这就严重到足以需要特殊的性治疗了。像由马斯特斯和约翰逊开发的这样的性治疗疗程,在恢复男子健康的性反应方面已经取得了非常大的成功。不过,这种成功的性治疗极大地依赖于性伴双方的合作。

The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Sex Therapy

The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions

Problems of Tumescence: Lack of Erection - Psychosocial Causes

A Vicious Circle: Fear of Failure
Some men are so insecure that they develop a fear of failure. Others just demand too much of themselves and begin to put their own responses to the test, thus turning every sexual encounter into a win-or-lose battle. Still others try to "stiffen their resolve" by drinking. Naturally, these stratagems only invite defeat, and thus the occasional problem turns into a chronic condition. The same fate may befall a man whose orgasm always occurs much sooner than that of his partner. There are also some men who are unable to free themselves emotionally from the domination of one or both of their parents, and there are those whose puritanical upbringing has left them uncomfortable with their sexual feelings. Furthermore, certain men may have difficulty starting coitus because of homosexual interests, and others are simply overwhelmed by their sexual inexperience. All of these men may eventually find themselves unable to have or hold an erection that would allow them to engage in coitus. As a matter of fact, as soon as they regularly fail more than one fourth of the time, their problem is serious enough to demand special therapy. Treatment programs, such as that developed by Masters and Johnson, have been quite successful in restoring a man's healthy sexual responses. This success depends, however, largely on the cooperation of both sexual partners.

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