男女性功能障碍 -性功能障碍

我们能够做什么？

性高潮不代表一切
最后要说明的是，用缩短性行为的持续时间和将性行为变成有目标指向的苦差事，这种过分强调性高潮会剥夺男女性伴的许多性快乐。因而，性行为成了一项工作，另一种评定个人成败的测试。于是，成功的结局，即性行为的“巅峰状态”(而不是性行为本身)，变成了性行为主要关注的目标。换一句话说，操控全部注意力的，已不再是性行为的过程而是性行为的产物。不幸的是，这种对可能结果的狭隘执着容易减低当时的性快感。的确，这可能会严重地干扰当事者的性反应。其结果是，男方可能为了自己的性满足过快地达到了性高潮，而女方可能根本就达不到任何的性高潮。

Female and Male Sexual Dysfunctions -
Sexual Dysfunctions

What can be done?

Orgasm is not everything
Finally, the overemphasis on orgasm robs men and women of much sexual pleasure by shortening the duration of their sexual intercourse and by turning it into a goal-oriented task. Thus, sex becomes work and, as such, still another testing ground for personal success or failure. At the same time, the successful finale, the "climax" of sexual intercourse, not the intercourse itself, becomes the major concern. In other words, it is no longer the process but the product which now commands all the attention. Unfortunately, this narrow fixation on the possible outcome tends to diminish the real pleasures of the moment. Indeed, it may seriously interfere with the sexual response. As a result, males may reach orgasm much too quickly for their own satisfaction, and women may not reach any orgasm at all.