Interviewing Technique

性功能障碍的诊断与治疗-诊断

既往性生活史

面谈技巧
为了成功采集个人的既往性生活史,面谈必须遵循下述规则:

  • 必须让每一个面谈对象确信有绝对的机密性
    当记录答案时,最好使用密码完成记录。采用金西的不能破译的密码或性治疗师自己创用的密码能够达到这个目的。只有性治疗师才能够读懂面谈对象的既往性生活史。 
     
  • 必须单独与每一个面谈对象约谈。
    即使当约谈一对夫妇时,为了采集他们的既往性生活史,也必须单独面谈。否则,他们可能会设法对性治疗师和相互掩盖某些重要的行为或感情。
     
  • 对所面谈的对象应该装作若无其事。
    外表是能误导人的。决不要预先假定一些正常的性行为,因为面谈对象看起来是正常的或谦虚地!不要跳过面谈提问的问题,而要询问每一件事情,并且你也许会感到吃惊!
     
  • 面谈者必须取中立态度,而且总体上要取支持态度。
    面谈者必须对所听所闻保持镇静,并不要有任何的道德评价。这就意味着面谈者不得不控制自己的身体语言,小心地不要通过声调、皱眉、其它的随意或不随意的手势等显示任何的惊讶或显露出赞成或不赞成的迹象。
     
  • 面谈应该从非紧要的一般项目开始。
    然后,面谈应该逐渐地过渡到更隐私的问题。这会有助于被约谈者放松情绪和与面谈者建立信任的关系。
     
  • 面谈应该在不紧不慢的情形下以平常的方式进行。
    这是获得可靠面谈结果的最好方式。中断提问进程或过于放慢面谈进程都会分散参与者的注意力,并招致无谓的偏题和隐瞒。

The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Diagnosis

Sex History

Interviewing Technique
In order to be successful, a "sex history" interview must follow these rules:

  • Each person must be assured of absolute confidentiality.
    This is best accomplished by using a code when recording the answers. This can be an adaptation of Kinsey's unbreakable code or the therapist's own invention. No one but the therapist should be able to read the person's sex history.
     
  • each person must be interviewed separately.
    Even when couples are being interviewed, they must be separated for the purpose of taking their sex histories. Otherwise they may try to conceal certain important actions or feelings from the therapist and from each other.
     
  • nothing should be assumed about the person being interviewed.
    Appearances can be deceiving. Never presuppose some "normal" sexual behavior because the person looks "normal" or unobtrusive! Do not skip interview questions, but ask about everything and you may be surprised!
     
  • the interviewers must adopt a neutral, but generally supportive attitude.
    They must remain unfazed by whatever they hear and refrain from any moral judgement. This means that they also have to control their own body language and be careful not to show any surprise or to convey approval or disapproval through voice inflection, frowning, or other voluntary or involuntary gestures.
     
  • the interview should begin with non-threatening general items.
    It should then gradually move to the more intimate issues. This will help to relax the person being interviewed and establish a trusting relationship with the interviewer.
     
  • the interview should proceed in a matter-of-fact manner at a neutral pace.
    This is the best way to obtain reliable results. Interrupting the flow of questions or slowing down too much impairs the participants' concentration and invites unhelpful digressions and denials.

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