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The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions
- Sex Therapy |
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The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The
Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions |
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Problems of Tumescence: Lack of
Erection - Psychological and Behavioral
Therapy
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2. Sexual
Caresses After several days of
these exercises, the partners may
concentrate their caresses on the sex
organs and the woman's
breasts. Again, guiding each other's
hands can be very helpful. Both partners
should also let each other know exactly
how they like to be masturbated, and
especially the man must tell the woman
how he wants her to hold and stroke his
penis. This kind of openness truly
enables the partners to give each other
pleasure. However, they still remain
under the therapist's firm instruction
not to aim for coitus or even for
orgasm. If an erection of the penis
occurs, the partners just stop playing
for a while until it goes down. Then the
man can allow himself to be masturbated
again until he has another erection
which he loses again, and so forth
through several repetitions. This simple
"teasing" of the penis will assure him
that there is nothing frightening about
losing an erection, and that he can
always get it back. |