The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Sex Therapy

The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The Treatment of Female Sexual Dysfunctions

Treatment - Simultaneous Orgasms?
Finally, it should perhaps also be mentioned that, according to a popular belief, sexual perfection requires both partners to reach orgasm at the same time. However, the pursuit of such an ideal can do more harm than good. It forces the partners to observe and control their own responses at all times and thus kills their spontaneity.

It is better to think of simultaneous orgasms as agreeable coincidences. There is no point in considering them in any way superior.