性功能障碍的治疗-性治疗

“传统的”性功能障碍 - 女性性功能障碍的治疗

性高潮障碍 - 女性性高潮时机不满足
性治疗师大多数情况下可以使用“性高潮时机不满足”的措辞来提问：“与谁性高潮时机不满足？与她？与他？还是与男女两方？”

这些提问也提醒我们，我们在此正在处理的问题涉及性伴带有主观的看法。此外，所产生的问题只会发生在两个个体之间。在“单一性别”并不存在所谓的性高潮时机不满足的问题。

女性达到性高潮比大多数男性要慢许多。这样的女性只要自己觉得有乐趣，她们就没有理由感到性不满足。惟有当她们开始性行为的时候可能发现自己处于不利的地位时，她们才有抱怨的理由。在过去，人们习惯于把这种问题唯一归咎为男人的过错。可是如今，我们终于明白了性高潮时机不满足是男-女相互的主观看法，只有这样的认识才会对治疗性功能障碍更为有益和更为接近事物的本质。

The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Sex Therapy

The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The Treatment of Female Sexual Dysfunctions

Problems of Orgasm - Unsatisfactory Timing of Orgasm in Women
The expression “unsatisfactory timing of orgasm” can help sex therapists to ask the most important questions: “Unsatisfactory to whom? To her? To him? To both?”

These questions also remind us that we are dealing here with subjective judgements of the sexual partners involved. Furthermore, the problem arises only between two individuals. There is no such thing as unsatisfactory timing of orgasm in “solitary sex”.

There are women who are much slower in reaching orgasm than most men. As long as such women only pleasure themselves, they have no reason to feel inadequate. It is only when they begin sexual intercourse that they may find themselves at a disadvantage. Their male partners may reach orgasm much sooner than they and therefore leave them unsatisfied. In the past, it was customary to define this problem exclusively in terms of male failure. Today, however, we understand that it is more helpful and realistic to see it as a problem of male-female mutual adjustment. After all, given the proper stimulation, the average female can respond just as quickly as the average male.