性功能障碍的治疗-性治疗

“传统的”性功能障碍 - 男性性功能障碍的治疗

性高潮问题: 性高潮时机不满足 - 发病原因
男子不能延后性高潮通常是由于不适当的自我训练或只是没有经验和缺乏实践的结果。例如：男子比较年轻时，不可能有多少兴趣延后性高潮，因为当时他们在相对较短的时间内也常常有能力出现第二次或第三次性高潮。事实上，不同寻常的是，一个青春期男孩为了发现谁能够首先达到性高潮而从事手淫竞赛。这种手淫竞赛的“赢家”通常会得到大家更多的赞扬，甚至因其男子气概而赢得大家的羡慕。只是到了后来，当这个男子企图与一位年轻女子性交的时候，他的快速的性反应忽然会变成劣势。因而，他可能比其女性性伴早得多地达到性高潮，并由此使女性性伴感到不满意。一旦发生这种情况，这个年轻男子可能极为怀疑自己的性能力，最终他在这个女性性伴面前甚至可能变得不能勃起。不过，非常常见的是，缺乏经验、过度兴奋和动作笨拙会使首次性交尝试沮丧不已，并且因此而可能导致生理反应失去控制。忍耐性好和体谅人的性伴通常能够对后续的性交尝试带来成功，不过，没有了这种帮助，这种生理障碍可能就不会逆转。

The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Sex Therapy

The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions

Problems of Orgasm: Unsatisfactory Timing of Orgasm - Causes
A man's inability to delay his orgasm is usually the result of inappropriate self-training or of simple inexperience and lack of practice. For example: In their younger years, males may not be much interested in delaying orgasm because then they are often also capable of  a second or third orgasm within a relatively short time. As a matter of fact, it is not unusual for adolescent boys to engage in masturbation contests in order to find out who can reach orgasm first. The "winner" of such a contest is usually much admired and even envied for his virility. It is only later, when he attempts coitus with a young woman, that the speed of his sexual response suddenly turns into a disadvantage. He may then reach orgasm much sooner than she and thus leave her unsatisfied. When this happens, the young man may develop serious doubts about his sexual abilities, and eventually he may even become unable to have an erection in the girl's presence. Very often, however, inexperience, over-excitement and clumsiness make the first attempts at coitus frustrating, and this can result in the loss of control. Patience and an understanding partner can usually bring success in subsequent attempts, but without such help the problem may become permanent.