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The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions
- Sex Therapy |
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The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The
Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions |
Problems of
Orgasm: Unsatisfactory Timing of Orgasm
- Causes
A man's inability to
delay his orgasm is usually the result
of inappropriate self-training or of
simple inexperience and lack of
practice. For example: In their younger
years, males may not be much interested
in delaying orgasm because then they are
often also capable of a second or
third orgasm within a relatively short
time. As a matter of fact, it is not
unusual for adolescent boys to engage in
masturbation contests in order to find
out who can reach orgasm first. The
"winner" of such a contest is usually
much admired and even envied for his
virility. It is only later, when he
attempts coitus with a young woman, that
the speed of his sexual response
suddenly turns into a disadvantage. He
may then reach orgasm much sooner than
she and thus leave her unsatisfied. When
this happens, the young man may develop
serious doubts about his sexual
abilities, and eventually he may even
become unable to have an erection in the
girl's presence. Very often, however,
inexperience, over-excitement and
clumsiness make the first attempts at
coitus frustrating, and this can result
in the loss of control. Patience and an
understanding partner can usually bring
success in subsequent attempts, but
without such help the problem may become
permanent. |
