“Nachiti! Murantani!” (No! White Man!)
“ ’Bin da ’ba:ba:n ’ma:nu” (Wings fly away get it)
Sexual behaviour development in
Only one Australian tribe is coded: the Tiwi (3,3,3,3,-,2;-,8). The Aranda (eHRAF) proved entirely unratable (-,-,-,-,-,-;-,-;G3).
The original Australians were famous for
their coital precocity. Eyre (1845, II:p320)
noted that “the life of an Australian woman is nothing more than uninterrupted
prostitution […]. From age ten she has intercourse with boys of 14 and 15”
[etc.]. Howitt (1891:p60-1)
quotes O’Donnell on the Kunandaburi tribe: “[…]. Female children during their
infancy are given by their parents to certain men or boys, who claim them as
soon as they arrive at puberty, and often before”. The marriage is then
consummated by the “Abija”, who helps dragging her away, and subsequently, by
“all males in the camp […], not even excepting the nearest male relatives of
the bride”, in a ceremony lasting for days. Thus, Howitt (1904:p260-1)
seemed to have assumed that prepubertal intercourse did not customarily exist
Drechsel (1985:p747) states:
“Die Jugend führt vor Beginn der Geschlechtsreife und vor Beginn der Initiation der Männer ein recht ungezwungenes Leben, in unserem Sinne fast antiautoritär. Sie übt schon frühzeitig mimetisch das Sexualverhalten ein. Die Erwachsenen förderen dies, und es dient ihnen zur Erheiterung. Sexualkontakte vor der Geschlechtsreife sind üblich. Mit dem Beginn der Initiation soll aber bei den Jungen Männern das lockere Sexualleben aufhören. Die Mädchen werden entsprechend den Abkommen mit etwa 9 Jahren ihrem versprochenen Ehemannen übergeben, der das Mädchen im Laufe der nächsten Jähre allmählich in die ehelichen Pflichten einweist”.
Adultery is condoned according to the institution of the so-called “Love Magic”, or more precisely, the Wongi institution, as it used to be widely distributed on the continent. Wongi relations would begin at age 14 for boys and age 11 for girls (p750). Róheim for the Aranda: “Let us suppose that a little girl has been promised to a man who is about the age of her father. She is hisnoa of course, according to the classificatory system of relationship, but he will not have intercourse with her till the signs of puberty become noticeable. These are: the development of the public hair, the breasts and, in a minor degree, the first menstruation. From time to time he will visit his bride and grease her, this being regarded as a sign of his love, as a sort of caressing and as a magical proceeding to make her breasts grow”.
Maddock ( 1973:p58, references footnoted) conveniently sums up some later observations on “coitarche” age: “A Tiwi girl took up cohabitation when eight or ten according to Jane Goodale (1962), fourteen according to Hart and Pilling (1960); a Walbiri when nine or twelve (Maggitt, 1962, 1965); a Wanindiljaugwa when nine (Rose, 1960); and a Pidjandjara, among women married first at an unusually late age, when in her late teens or even early twenties (Yengoyan, 1970). The husband would probably have reached forty in Tiwi, thirty if Walbiri or Wanindiljaugwa and the late twenties if Pidjandjara”. Curr (1886, I:p107, as cited by Ronhaar) speaks of cohabitation at age eight, Sadler (p8, as cited by Ronhaar) at age ten. Von Miklucho-Maclay (1880:p88-9, as cited by Ronhaar) speaks of age stratified sexual intercourse with girls before puberty.
“In traditional Aboriginal society marriages are significant to the forging of alliances, and often betrothal arrangements are made when the prospective bride is very young, or possibly even unborn. A man may not marry until he has undergone a significant part of the lengthy initiation process: thus, at marriage a man will be in his twenties or even thirties. Often a man’s first wife is the widow of an older man, and his subsequent wives may be much younger. A marriage may be signalled by the simple act of a couple living together and being accepted as married by their kin. It has been noted that the mere act of a woman walking through a camp to join a man at his request may constitute a marriage ritual”.
in the gerontocratic marriage system, the elder effect a monopoly on the
younger women and have more polygamous occasion. Elkin (1954:p123)
states that “infant betrothal is the normal thing; indeed a woman’s daughter
is promised to a man or the latter’s son or nephew before she is born”.
“Among Yuwaaliyaay people, […] infant betrothal
appears to have been the norm”. Among the aborigines of the
Wheelman tribe a baby girl is betrothed to a youth or man; he “grows” her, or
supports her growing up (Hassell, 1936:p682).
notes on the Euahlayi tribe: “At whatever age a girl may be
betrothed to a man [“There is often a baby betrothal called Bahnmul”] he
never claims her while she is yet Mullerhgun, or child girl; not until she is
Wirreebeeun, or woman girl”. Withnell:
“When the man considers it is time that he should take the damsel promised to
him, he makes a demand to her father or uncle, and they order the girl to go
to his camp […]” (p16). Similarly, Calvert
mentions that “[…] a female child is betrothed, in her infancy, to some
native of another family, necessarily very many years older than herself. He
watches over her jealously, and she goes to live with him as soon as she
feels inclined”. Spencer and Giller ([1927, II:p469-70) also mention betrothal
of Aranda girls “many years before the is born”.
states that “marriages are arranged before children are born”. Provis writes
in Taplin (1879:p93) of the Streaky
Bay South aborigines that there can sometimes be seen “the incongruous
spectacle of a little child betrothed to a grown man. The girl is called his Kur-det-thi (future wife). They sleep
together, but no sexual intercourse takes place till the girl arrives at the
age of puberty”. Schürmann writes in Woods (1879:p222)
of the Port Lincoln tribe that
“long before a young girl arrives at maturity, she is affianced by her
parents, to some friend of theirs, no matter whether young or old, married or
single”. Howitt (1904:p197) for the Wolgal tribe reports that “a girl is promised as a
mere child to some man of the proper class, he being then perhaps middle aged
or even old”. Betrothal occurred when “quite young”, states Bonney
(1884:p129). Child betrothal and
marriage is noted for Arnhemland
“A child a year old will sometimes be betrothed to an old man, and it will be
his duty to protect and feed her, and (unless she is stolen by some one else)
when she is old enough she becomes his wife. In the case of a husband’s death
his wife belongs to the oldest man in his family, who either takes her
himself or gives her to some one else” (Forrest, 1876:p317).
Rowley stated that “[f]emale children are betrothed as soon as they were born” (Greenway, Honery et al., 1878:p262).
Strehlow (1913): “Children are betrothed in infancy, usually at two or three
years age. […] When the boy is ten or twelve years old, he is informed that
he must wait for marriage until his beard has grown and shows its first grey
hairs”. “Strehlow has set out the method of betrothal of a boy to a
girl-child among the western Loritja people, and states that it is somewhat later
than with the Aranda, say between four and ten years.
My own observations lead me to believe that instead of the betrothal being
arranged for the son it is more often arranged for the man himself”
Rose (1960:p17) notes for the
Thomson (1933:p509) remarked: “There is in this society nothing approaching the sexual licence that Professor Malinowski [] found to be the regular thing before marriage in the Trobriands. In the Koko Ya’o tribe a girl has normally no sexual experience before marriage, for she is married actually before puberty, even before she is physiologically capable of bearing children. Prior to this she lives at her parent’s fireside, and even during the day she is under the constant surveillance of her mother, whom she accompanies in her daily quest for food. The reason that the natives give for this child-marriage is that the girl will not be afraid of her husband if she grows up with him”. The Yolngu practiced prenatal betrothal (Money and Erhhardt, 1973 / 1996:p142), and, together with eventual siblings, join the husband at menarche, at age 12 or 13. “Should a girl be taken prepubertally by her older promise man (in lieu of a bride price), then sex with her would be confined to his training her vagina in digital masturbation (“finger-dala”), until after the age of menarche. Only then would penile intromission begin”.
“According to the ideal of the past, by this time [adolescence] a girl should be securely ensconced in her marital household with a man she had been promised to from infancy if not before she was born. In 1981, however, this ideal was realised by no one” (Burbank, 1988:p102).
Sharp (1934:p430) marks for the North-Eastern Yir-Yoront: “The sex dichotomy begins early in life [as seen in] obscene and abusive language, in modesty regarding in bodily functions […] in childish sexual experimentation, and formally, in the custom for small girls of wearing a pubic apron until the pubic hair appears and an artificial covering is no longer deemed necessary”. In Arnhemland, there is the establishment of a brother-sister taboo at age seven (Hiatt, 1964:p125). This gender awareness is outstanding in most tribes. A relative separation of the sexes occurs when boys join the (bachelor’s) camp(jiridji for some tribes), and girls joins the women’s camp. The age at which this occurs is variable, rising up to subincision age, which is predominantly postpubescent (Basedow, p124-5).
Genitalia and sexual maturity are important organising factors in everyday life; menarche, thelarche, pubarche, and ejacularche are commonly referred to by children as indicating age or age difference. Boys are (probably playfully) insulted by the exclamation kalu (penis) alputalputa (dry boy’s grass), which, according to Róheim (1938:p346) is “slanderous as it indicates that the boy’s penis is devoid of semen”.
Lacking a substantial (conscious) association with conception (e.g., Lommel), many of the Australians regard all intercourse in the light of play. However, Strehlow (II:p52) remarks that both Arunta and Leritja tribes enlightened their children on the reproductive cycle of animals. The matter of conceptive knowledge is discussed by Read (1918:p147-8), who argues: “That among many savages [sexual] intercourse is common before puberty, and therefore resultless, seems to me unimportant; because the change of sexual life at puberty is deeply impressive and well known to savages”. I may remark here that this point awaits exploration. The idea may indeed be fostered by an absence of coital pause since childhood, combined with the observation that, for reasons not clearly understood, “the girls seem to be sterile for several years after puberty” (Wallace, 1961:p194).
Money et al. (1970),
Money’s excursion notes and subsequent use of the concept “sexual rehearsal play” were contested by Colapinto (2000, see p86-91), who posited some compromising allegations only partially contested by Money. Sexual rehearsal theory was first verbalised in the 1970 article on Arnhemland Aboriginals, based on a two-week visit by Money in 1969. Money’s “observations” would be based on a single, dubious remark by a child, Colapinto argued, stating co-author Cawte denied every knowledge of the phenomenon [!]. This latter argument is quite contrary expectation given the existing literature even at that time. Moreover, five years before Money’s visit, Cawte (1964:p181) wrote on a North-Western tribe: “The children, accustomed to their parents’ sexual intercourse, play sexual games at the age of four with the realism that would horrify a Western mother. The schoolteacher tries to teach them alternatives such as hide-and-seek [sic] but “they never get it off their minds”. (Arguing in favour of Money’s ideologies on paraphilic development, all “sexual perversions”, not paraphilias, occurred in subadults, and no adulthood paraphilias were mentioned here.)
Be these accusations as they may, much can be said in the defence of Money’s “observations” as contrasting Euro-American concepts of coitarche. At the same time of Money’s visit, Abbie (1969:p202) remarks: “The children, like children everywhere, play “grown-ups” and “mothers and fathers”, and being better informed than most white children they carry the game further and attempt to bring it to its logical conclusion. No doubt the more physically precocious succeed. […] Aboriginal parents tend to view it with amused indulgence provided the proper kinship relations are observed- in the north at least”. Róheim (1932:p91) on Central Australian Aboriginals: “We may confidently affirm that there is no latency period in the life of these people, no period in which they do not make more or less successful attempts at coitus” (cf. 1956:p3). Róheim relates that “their only, and certainly their supreme, game was coitus” (Róheim, 1962:p207; 1941 [1969:p157]). Róheim(1974:p76-120) made an extensive study of children’s play sessions both in camp and in the bush using animal puppets. The play reveals much “orificial” material, and a large amount of coital enactments. Native dolls may also provide outlets of sexual material; in at least some tribes, the genital organs are said to be the “most prominent part” of the dolls (Hernández, 1941:p132).
The doll case being typical of other societies (®Vol. II, §6.2.13), sex games appear to have been “typical”, in the sense of quasi-sexual / borrowed scripts. Warner (1937:p75) noted house-playing among the Murngin. “They are fully aware of the sexual act and of sex differences. About the time facial hair appears upon a boy and the breasts of a girl swell, that is, when sexual intercourse is in their power and of interest to both, they start making love trysts in the bush. They may not copulate at first, but they simulate the act in close contact”. A forty-five year old man reveals of his childhood ([1958:p569-70]):
“When we little boys and girls played together we did it by ourselves so that no one could see. We were ashamed if we thought older people were watching and listening to what we were doing. We said things to each other about sexual intercourse and other sexual things which we did not understand. The other day I heard a little girl say to the little boy she was playing with, “You are my husband. I am your wife. Come have sexual intercourse with me”. That was the kind of thing we said to each other. I laughed because I remembered when we said those things and we did not know what they meant. She said it because it was part of their game. But when we grew larger we did find out and some of us became sweethearts”.
Richter (1962:p270-1) reports:
“Die sexuelle Spielereien gehen, solange die Kinder noch klein sind, in aller Öffentlichkeit vor sich. Später nutzen Jungen und Mädchen die Ruhestunden der Erwachsenen aus, um sich in den Busch zu stehlen, Mann und Frau zu spielen und Erfahrungen auszutauschen. Mit 9 Jahren, stellenweise auch noch früher, haben kleine Mädchen ihren ersten sexuellen Verkehr; sie stehen dann also 2 bis 3 Jahre vor ihrer Menarche. Ihre ersten Partner sind meist ältere, bereits initiirte Jungen. […] Oft erweitern die Mädchen selbst oder mit Hilfe einer Freundin ihr Hymen mit dem Finger. […] Mutuelle Onanie zwischen Frauen und Mädchen ist weit verbreitet […]. Ebenso ist das Vorkommen von Päderastie belegt, und zwar nehmen sich 17- bis 18jährige Jugendliche, um die Zeit bis zu ihrer Verheiratung zu überbrücken, gern 10jährige Knaben als Liebhaber”.
Children learn about sexual relations “in
broad outline” at a “very early” age (Berndt and Berndt, 1971:p118-9). Berndt and Berndt (1964
[1977:p164]): “Sometimes children
play at “husbands and wives” with separate windbreaks, making little fires
and pretending to cook food. Sometimes there are games of adultery, one
little boy running off with the wife of another”.
Kinship codes are enforced leniently. Berndt and Berndt (1946:p69):
“[…] very small children try to carry out among themselves actions similar to
those of their parents during coitus. […] Parents will joke about their
children’s genitalia or immature erotic experiments, or ignore them as they
feel inclined. Dozens of such examples from various parts of southern,
central, and northern
The Ooldea aboriginals believe that the ‘di:dji’pulka (age three or four to pubarche) has no sexual desires (Berndt and Berndt, 1943:p252-3, 276; 1944:224). Among Central Australians, boys and girls may not before puberty eat large lizard for if they do so they will acquire an abnormal craving for sexual intercourse. However, latency is nonexistent: “Small children play in the bush away from the main camp. Although it is collective play, there is the tendency to choose partners after a time and to depart in pairs to the secrecy of the bushes” […] Bands of children wander on the sand-hills, often indulging in erotic play during such games as “father and mother” ”. The play may even reveal adult secrets: “Coitus a tergo was denied, yet it undoubtedly occurred as shown by the behavior of the children during the play hours […]” (Róheim, [1958:229]).
The crossing of sexual (copulatory) themes and child actors appears in Aboriginal mythology. The children also seem to participate in coitomimic behaviours as performed in mock rituals. Schidlof (1908:p9) cites Buchner who noted childhood participation in such dances, in which “[…] bei dem Meke-Meketanz außerhalb des Reigens der großen mehrere kleine Jungen sich paarweise einander gegenüberstellten, einander umfaßten und nach dem Takte der Musik obscöne Bewegungen machten, die an Deutlichkeit nichts zu wünschen übrig ließen. Die anwesenden Eltern lachten und schrien vor Freude, namentlich die Weiber, die sich über das Gebahren ihrer sechsjährige Sprößlinge ganz außerordentlich amüsierten”.
Some later sources include Tonkinson (1978:p66-7): “For the first half-dozen or so years of their lives, the children usually play in mixed-sex groups and their games sometimes include “making camp” and “mothers and fathers”. This at times includes attempts at sexual intercourse, and the staging of adultery, elopement, and so on. This amuses adults, who turn a blind eye to such erotic play, although an older relative may mildly scold them if the couple concerned stands in an “incestuous” relationship, as a reminder about the correct behaviors they will have to observe as adulthood approaches”. Pilling (1992:p28) mentioned “intercrural sexual stimulation” by two five-year-old boys, and masturbation of a dog by an eleven-year-old. Boyer et al. (1990:p292) stated that “[a]lthough adult homosexuality is denied, many games involve heterosexual and homosexual cohabitation” in young Pitjatjatjara children. Coates (1997) mentions anecdotal “sexual rehearsal play” when talking about the nonindigenous population, and deems it as common as anywhere. However, aboriginal “[g]irls were often given to their husbands while still prepubertal, but coitus did not usually commence until her breasts had grown. In this context, girls may have had their first sexual experience by the age of 9 and boys by the age of 12”.
Tonkinson (1974:p122, 124): “Even their [preschoolers] periodic attempts to imitate the sexual activities of their elders are viewed by the latter with light-hearted indifference and do not provoke adult interference”. Tonkinson relates that missionaries set up dormitory systems to break up the coital quests, with only partial success. This was already observed by Lommel (1949/50:p158): “Sexual intercourse starts at an early age, but is frowned upon by older people, as it should begin only after initiation. On the stations and missions old people lose their influence on the younger and alert persons who are able to understand the new law which is brought by the white men”. Still, “[t]here exists a special expression for sexual intercourse between young boys and girls: jan jan (Unambal and Worora tribe)”. By the time of 1981, a report by Hamilton (p76, 104) suggests that coital play may have gone underground (or rather, bushward): “No activities that could be called “sex play” were ever observed in the camps and there was nothing to suggest that if they occurred out of sight of adults anyone was concerned. […] Adults deny the occurrence of homosexual play among the boys [ages 5-9] although they admit to heterosexual play between children before they can “understand” ”.
In 1935, Kaberry would warn that “[s]ome missionaries have yet to grasp the elementary fact that needle work, cooking, housework and an occasional picnic do not in themselves constitute an adequate substitute for sexual experience” (p402). Despite these attractiva, Kaberry (1939:p66) could report that “[c]hildren of both sexes romp together, fight, squabble, wrestle, and indulge in crude sexual play […] young girls of eight or ten play with the boys in the camp when the others are asleep at midday or away in the bush”. By the 1980s, Cowlishaw refrains from discussing sexual behaviour socialisation altogether. This is remarkable given his earlier PhD thesis on the matter.
Exploring contemporary Australian Aboriginal
Initiation: Sexological Implications
Róheim interprets the sexual meaning of Aranda male initiation as follows: “It is quite evident that the mystery [of sex] revealed is the primal scene and that parental coitus is reenacted in each totemic ceremony. What are the principal differences between the original and the symbolic form? In the rite the end pleasure is not represented. The ritual offers another form of gratification to the son, that of interrupting the father in the sexual act. He is no longer excluded; he is initiated into the sexual mystery. This indeed is the “official”, that is, the conscious, meaning of the initiation rite, which introduces the sons into the hitherto forbidden realm of sex” (Eternal Ones of the Dream).
The boy typically enters a ceremonial curriculum before puberty. In the (mostly) postpubertal stages this variably included circumcision, or subincision (mika) (overview by Engelhart, 1998:p69-73; cf. Zeller). The erotogenetic motivations, or effects, are debated (e.g., Basedow, p147-8 et seq.; Berndt, 1951).
Falkenberg and Falkenberg (1981:p77-8) state that, although prohibited, immature uncircumcised boys from the Marinbata tribe, use prepubertal and neopubescent girls of their own clan after being turned down by older girls of other clans. They use secretions of a specific orchid (tjalamajin) applied to the penis as a lubricant; a modern substitute is soap. Precircumcision intercourse is discouraged by the adults males by the prospect of the induration of the preputial sinew, producing a more painful circumcision, and a blackening of the interior mucus, producing a stigma to be revealed at initiation. The boys, however, secure the others that this is untrue. Among the Warramunga the foreskin may be put in the burrow of a ground spider after circumcision, “[…] in which case it is supposed to cause the penis to grow” (cited by Róheim).
(®Vol. II, ch.9)
Róheim states that Australian mothers “lie on their sons in the [female on top] position [] and freely masturbate them” at night” (1950; 1964:p194, 231; see also 1974:p244; also Berndt & Berndt, 1946:p69). According to Róheim (1932), mother and child may lie in intercourse position (p54), and mothers practice infant genital play (p55, 87). The father, but not the mother, is used to mouth and “gently bite” the external genitalia of the child, as if eating them (1932:p183). This is also observed by Boyer et al. (1990:p291). Equally, Hippler (1978:p235) stated that among the Yolngu, “the child is sexually stimulated by the mother [...]. Penis and vagina [] are caressed [...] clearly the action arouses the mother. Many mothers develop blissful smiles or become quite agitated (with, we assume, sexual stimulation) and their nipples apparently harden during these events. Children [...] are encouraged to play with their mothers’ breasts, and [...] are obviously stimulated sexually [...]”. Money and Ehrhardt (1973/1996:p142) add: “In former times infants might be pacified by fondling of their genitals, but this practice is not obvious today”.
(®Vol. II, §11.1.1)
says that Walbiri aborigines (
“We find it reported across the continent
that female sexual maturity is attributed to the actions of men, either
through intercourse, the performance of rites, or both. Warner (1937:p75) reports of the Murngin that they
believe “menstruation is due to the sexual act […]”.
A boy-wife system is known to have existed among the Aboriginal Australians around the end of the nineteenth century (Murray, 1992:p3-9; Richter, vide supra; Strehlow, 1915:p98; Klaatsch, as cited by Layard citing Radcliffe-Brown and by Basedow, p147), although its exact homosexual nature or function is variably interpreted (Karsch-Haack, 1911:p82-90 [also cited by Bryk, 1931 [1974:p115]; Róheim, 1929:p189; Mathews, vide infra; Greenberg, 1988:p35-6). The custom took place with boys until their first subincision, their status designated as Chookadoo  (age 5), or Mullawongah (age 5-7). Other authors mention ages of 10 (Richter), 10-12, and 10-11. The Mullawongah is brought in erection by manipulation, and the penis is inserted into the subincised penis of an elder, who then ejaculates (Purcell, 1893:p287; Westermarck, 1908, II:p460, n5, 466; Westermarck, 1909:p113, 117; Merzbach, 1909:p388; Karsch-Haack, 1911:p83; Adam, 1986:p29-30).
As for the actual performance involved, Mathews (1907:p158-9) writes [orig. footnotes]:
“This custom [boy companions for men] has
given rise to a widespread belief among the white population that pederasty
is practiced; but from very careful inquiries made by friends at my request,
I am led to the conclusion that the vice indulged in between the man and the
boy is a form of masturbation only. A resident of the
Rose (1960:p20, 221-2) mentions no
homosexuality as part of the “guardian/initiate institution” among the
“[i]n the same way as a girl is promised as wife to a man, her brother is promised before or shortly after birth to his sister’s prospective husband as an initiate. After the boy is circumcised as about 9 years he goes to live with the older man and remains with him until he is about 17 years old, when he is ceremonially released […]. The initiates could be stolen, or exchanged as gifts in the same way as young girls could be”.
This custom of boy servants was noted by other ethnographers not mentioning sexual transactions, boys of pubertal age being “caught”, greased, ochred, and instructed in return of his waiting upon his Ganitch (sister’s husband).
During the Bora ritual for Kamilaroi boys (Mathews, 1896:p333-4), “obscenity” takes place between the men and the boys.
To complete matters, here’s Havelock Ellis (1927):
another allied primitive people, the Australians, it would appear that
homosexuality has long been well established in tribal customs. Among the
Introcision (the enlargement of the vaginal opening by
tearing or cutting the perineum) was practised among some of the aboriginal
Australians (Aranda, basically) in order to
facilitate the first experience of sexual intercourse (Head, 1978; Cook,
1979; Huelsman, 1976),
which may have been immediate, forceful and with multiple partners (Favazza,
1987:p159). [When a young woman
Kubary (as cited by Ronhaar) states that among the Wakka,
“[t]he mothers make the girls fit for copulation prematurely, by breaking the hymen with their fingers. This operation is secret, it is true, but takes place all the same. The mother moreover admonishes the girl to demand proper payment for her favours. The mother sees to it that at the copulation no inconvenience is experienced due to the early age of the girl, by regularly stretching the vulva by little rolls of leaves […]. The mother sends the child out on her first sexual adventures”.
Lommel speaks of the Wunambal tribe when mentioning
“[…] a rather clumsily executed defloration to make a girl “ready” for intercourse. After that, so it is said, a girl lived for some time until her marriage in promiscuity with all those men to whom she was according to her relationship an eligible wife. This custom still prevails, so I was told, in missions where it is officially prohibited and therefore practised secretly at night only. […] The crude defloration is performed by an elder man of the same marriage-group as the girl. He, so I was told, wraps round his finger some thread spun from kangaroo-hair, and executes the defloration with it. After that the men of her intermarrying group who happen to be present have intercourse with her” (p159, 160).
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