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- What kind(s) of sex you typically have (vaginal,
anal, oral, fisting, etc.)
- Your safer sex precautions and techniques
- The number of partners with whom you have
sexual contact and other erotic activities
- Any activities that might involve bruising or
breaking the skin
- Any activities that are potentially risky to your
health (breath control, electricity, fireplay, ingestion
of feces, etc.)
- Any body modifications
- Drug or alcohol use patterns
- Birth control methods (including "none")
- Any unusual family structures or relationships
(polyamorous, owner/slave, etc.) which should be
taken into account for hospital visitation, decision-
making and so on
- Anybody in your family structure who doesn't
know about these activities and should be shielded
from this information
Be sure to update this information periodically.
Throughout this discussion, emphasize that you
choose these behaviors of your own free will, that you
do them for your personal enjoyment, and that you have
taken the time to educate yourself about how to do them
as safely as possible. Try to be sensitive to your physician's
body language, and not give too much information all at